Whatever is happening in your life, or has happened in your past, there are several tools that you can count on to help you, and eventually help others. Acceptance, of others and of yourself, is one of the foundations of the 12 Step recovery movement, as well as the other spiritual practices. The more I accept myself, the less I need to criticize and judge others.
Along with acceptance, there is the equally challenging concept of forgiveness. I must forgive myself for the choices I have made to survive. I did the best I could given the cards I was dealt. Then I need to forgive the people that have hurt me, intentionally or not, in order to find peace.
This blog is about healing from childhood rejection, especially related to gender identity and sexuality. The tool of creativity is one that I want to emphasize, because in articulating and sharing our stories we heal ourselves and inspire others to find the healing they need.
It all comes down to selfless service with joy. And we get there through acceptance, forgiveness, and creativity.
Please comment if you are reading this blog. I want to create a community here to explore these topics in a safe space.
Thanks.
© Judy Kamilhor 2010
